Things
given bought acquired
by others for self
often have the energy signatures
of the bestower and their motives
which were often not 'good'.
Casting those off
no matter what the cost/scarring
is cleansing
releasing one from the bonds of
those unspoken, irremovable dishonesties.
Passing them on
or even selling them to
the heirs apparent
is sort of amusing
not to mention freeing.
They think they got something
marvelous,
got over on
'won'
when
all they got
were
the leavings
the castoffs
the dregs
the crumbs
the revolting baggage
of ...
NaPoWriMo...and beyond... Prosey poetry and free verse. Unapologetically real recovery. My words, my life, my experience.
Thursday, December 20, 2018
Tuesday, December 18, 2018
Wings...again
leaving that past behind
whoever pulled the trigger
is exhilarating
you don't know what is
pulling you down
how heavy IT all is
until it is fucking OFF of you
wow
the lightness of losing
about five hundred pounds
of witches and winged monkeys
(who knows which is bitch? LOL.)
mood and attitude soaring
riding the updrafts of
my new life
my life
mine
whoever pulled the trigger
is exhilarating
you don't know what is
pulling you down
how heavy IT all is
until it is fucking OFF of you
wow
the lightness of losing
about five hundred pounds
of witches and winged monkeys
(who knows which is bitch? LOL.)
mood and attitude soaring
riding the updrafts of
my new life
my life
mine
Monday, December 10, 2018
F*ck you
Crossing over to
blatant insubordination
the latest set of demands
and disrespect has gotten
my back up so high
it feels like the new Himalayas
back there
I will not quit
you will fire me
you think you know so much
you think you have control
you think you can hurt me
but
you don't know
what is coming
next
blatant insubordination
the latest set of demands
and disrespect has gotten
my back up so high
it feels like the new Himalayas
back there
I will not quit
you will fire me
you think you know so much
you think you have control
you think you can hurt me
but
you don't know
what is coming
next
Friday, November 2, 2018
Education
I already know that
you will be directed
here to
examine the evidence of
the sort of person I am and
you will find that data
but not what they tell you
that you will find
but
you will also find
plenty of proof
regarding those who sent you here and of
who they are and not
the confirmation of my alleged crazy but
the validation of yours.
You've been wondering already,
haven't you?
take notes
please learn
your test is coming
believe me
it is coming
if you learn the lesson now
you won't fail
I had to take it more than once
but I got that PhD
pretty quickly
you will be directed
here to
examine the evidence of
the sort of person I am and
you will find that data
but not what they tell you
that you will find
but
you will also find
plenty of proof
regarding those who sent you here and of
who they are and not
the confirmation of my alleged crazy but
the validation of yours.
You've been wondering already,
haven't you?
take notes
please learn
your test is coming
believe me
it is coming
if you learn the lesson now
you won't fail
I had to take it more than once
but I got that PhD
pretty quickly
Monday, October 29, 2018
INFJ
Lonely
like no one understands me
mostly, I don't care
but when I meet new people
romantic or friends
there's a part of me that longs
to connect, to be known, to be celebrated
for who I am
I tend to be loyal to a point of pain
that is rarely reciprocated
though 'they' are always shocked
that I won't stay around and accept
the unacceptable, for very long
and i guess I am too much for most
because they all seem to wander
away eventually, not willing or able
to put in the effort and time to
know the real me
cherish my uniqueness
ready to stay the course
though at times, things are turbulent
like no one understands me
mostly, I don't care
but when I meet new people
romantic or friends
there's a part of me that longs
to connect, to be known, to be celebrated
for who I am
I tend to be loyal to a point of pain
that is rarely reciprocated
though 'they' are always shocked
that I won't stay around and accept
the unacceptable, for very long
and i guess I am too much for most
because they all seem to wander
away eventually, not willing or able
to put in the effort and time to
know the real me
cherish my uniqueness
ready to stay the course
though at times, things are turbulent
Tuesday, October 23, 2018
Taxing...not
"nice" email from
(pick one, any one)
(pick one, any one)
a dumbass buckaroo fucktard
usual threats, pity party, tears
chest beating braggadocio
obviously thinking
I actually give a shit or am even concerned
about the veiled and overt threats
no response necessary except to
get more crappy stuff out of MY home and my head
my healing is more complete every time others don't
get what they want from me and I don't
respond directly to any man child's bullshit
go peddle it somewhere else to someone else, anyone else
no one here cares
I am quite entertained
by the use of the same stupid words, excuses, and rationalizations
(I shared that idiotic missive with EVERYONE)
apocryphal stories that have been overused, over and over and over
by each blustering bozo, everywhere, in every corner of the world
and the internet
and some (becoming many, many more) of us
laugh in bored exasperation
that the teeming herds of narcissists don't have any new lines
god forbid any of them actually told the truth about anything
but that's good
because more and more sane people
can track the same old crazy being broadcast
for what it is
another placeholder writing regarding all of the idiots
to remind me of what's what at some future date
usual threats, pity party, tears
chest beating braggadocio
obviously thinking
I actually give a shit or am even concerned
about the veiled and overt threats
no response necessary except to
get more crappy stuff out of MY home and my head
my healing is more complete every time others don't
get what they want from me and I don't
respond directly to any man child's bullshit
go peddle it somewhere else to someone else, anyone else
no one here cares
I am quite entertained
by the use of the same stupid words, excuses, and rationalizations
(I shared that idiotic missive with EVERYONE)
apocryphal stories that have been overused, over and over and over
by each blustering bozo, everywhere, in every corner of the world
and the internet
and some (becoming many, many more) of us
laugh in bored exasperation
that the teeming herds of narcissists don't have any new lines
god forbid any of them actually told the truth about anything
but that's good
because more and more sane people
can track the same old crazy being broadcast
for what it is
another placeholder writing regarding all of the idiots
to remind me of what's what at some future date
Wednesday, October 17, 2018
Balance
the challenge to be simultaneously autonomous and involved
to make plans together without being clingy or insecure
and to be okay with those plans being shit-canned by one
with no real consultation or input from the other
what is normal vs. what is dysfunctional
lonely in a relationship is NOT normal, though
what's wrong with wanting to spend more time with someone?
except when they don't
and have a million reasons, all very logical and well-explained,
for why not, why they can't, why they aren't available
a day a week isn't really enough
despite evening phone calls that are rushed and stilted
full of tired, overwhelmed, duty, keeping it going
with bare minimum minimalist effort
but I am supposed to remain available, uncritical
unneeding, undemanding, unhopeful, no plans
can't have a pot to piss in or a dream to look forward to
why
why
why
to make plans together without being clingy or insecure
and to be okay with those plans being shit-canned by one
with no real consultation or input from the other
what is normal vs. what is dysfunctional
lonely in a relationship is NOT normal, though
what's wrong with wanting to spend more time with someone?
except when they don't
and have a million reasons, all very logical and well-explained,
for why not, why they can't, why they aren't available
a day a week isn't really enough
despite evening phone calls that are rushed and stilted
full of tired, overwhelmed, duty, keeping it going
with bare minimum minimalist effort
but I am supposed to remain available, uncritical
unneeding, undemanding, unhopeful, no plans
can't have a pot to piss in or a dream to look forward to
why
why
why
Monday, October 8, 2018
Pointlessness
some days, it's like
why bother
to improve the health
the life
the flagging friendships
doesn't seem to make any difference
anyway
everyone is lazy
doing the minimum they can get away with
don't care if anything is cared for cherished
adored
it's just all dust
perception
foolish ego
random hopes
nothing
why bother
to improve the health
the life
the flagging friendships
doesn't seem to make any difference
anyway
everyone is lazy
doing the minimum they can get away with
don't care if anything is cared for cherished
adored
it's just all dust
perception
foolish ego
random hopes
nothing
Wednesday, October 3, 2018
Leaves, leaving
A song on the radio
evokes the mid 70s
and a fall day walking to school
middle school hell
away from my home which wasn't
too great of a place to be either
when you are just 13 and your
dad quit smoking and became a temporarily
temperamental monster of withdrawal.
Then, sneaking up the sidewalk in
the middle of the block
that I am not supposed to be walking through
skirting the fenced edge
of an elementary school playground
only to reach the park and gleefully
kick joyfully through gigantic leaf piles
inhaling the dry and decaying scents
leaves of all colors
grass slowly fading to yellow
overcast skies periodically part to
let the autumn sun bathe
my temporarily free face with
peace
trudging the last few blocks
gray, cracked, heaving sidewalks
only a few skittering tree droppings under my toes
I reach the door and reach for the door
dread, painfully knowing the inferno of
my peers waiting on the other side
ready to dispel and trample the bubble of calm
collected in my head in the park.
Now, I study the leaves, the air, the sun, and
just the seasonal 'air' as I carefully
pilot my craft towards work
wishing I was walking and kicking
but five miles is a long way to walk
twice a day, no matter how nostalgic
my memories are
thankful that no hell awaits me at
my destination
evokes the mid 70s
and a fall day walking to school
middle school hell
away from my home which wasn't
too great of a place to be either
when you are just 13 and your
dad quit smoking and became a temporarily
temperamental monster of withdrawal.
Then, sneaking up the sidewalk in
the middle of the block
that I am not supposed to be walking through
skirting the fenced edge
of an elementary school playground
only to reach the park and gleefully
kick joyfully through gigantic leaf piles
inhaling the dry and decaying scents
leaves of all colors
grass slowly fading to yellow
overcast skies periodically part to
let the autumn sun bathe
my temporarily free face with
peace
trudging the last few blocks
gray, cracked, heaving sidewalks
only a few skittering tree droppings under my toes
I reach the door and reach for the door
dread, painfully knowing the inferno of
my peers waiting on the other side
ready to dispel and trample the bubble of calm
collected in my head in the park.
Now, I study the leaves, the air, the sun, and
just the seasonal 'air' as I carefully
pilot my craft towards work
wishing I was walking and kicking
but five miles is a long way to walk
twice a day, no matter how nostalgic
my memories are
thankful that no hell awaits me at
my destination
Monday, October 1, 2018
Again
again
starting again
every day, starting over
with the knowledge and experiences
of previous days
as a road map to
what I want
who I am
where I am going
and...
...who is going with me
which currently is
NO ONE
starting again
every day, starting over
with the knowledge and experiences
of previous days
as a road map to
what I want
who I am
where I am going
and...
...who is going with me
which currently is
NO ONE
Monday, September 24, 2018
Present and presents
patience
dreams
empathy
vulnerability
touch
communication
intimacy
healing
peace
help
willingness
love
always love
dreams
empathy
vulnerability
touch
communication
intimacy
healing
peace
help
willingness
love
always love
Thursday, September 20, 2018
Fall planting
The outside air cools, briskly pressing me
to bring in my indoor plants that
spent the summer being outdoor plants
sort of like a green snowbirding to
life in the backyard.
Every room in the house requires
rearrangement to re-accommodate
the thirty or so incoming residents
at last, they are all in, lounging
on every flat, wide surface
so much bigger, taller, wider, rowdier
always taking so much more space than
when they went outside in the spring
but now they are stressed and
I am stressed
at the sudden movement and relocation
and changes in temperature and light.
Gentle music purls through the rooms as
I sing and talk and murmur to each one
as I remove dead leaves and gently
touch the soil in each pot
checking for moisture and extra 'residents'.
I light candles and distribute
ember-tipped sandwood incense
sticks throughout the house into
selected pots
I make dinner as plants and pups alike
hold their breath, vigilant, hopeful, relaxing
next each friend is carefully watered and welcomed
and we all begin to relax and rebond
as we learn to live together again
in this precious, peaceful home
to bring in my indoor plants that
spent the summer being outdoor plants
sort of like a green snowbirding to
life in the backyard.
Every room in the house requires
rearrangement to re-accommodate
the thirty or so incoming residents
at last, they are all in, lounging
on every flat, wide surface
so much bigger, taller, wider, rowdier
always taking so much more space than
when they went outside in the spring
but now they are stressed and
I am stressed
at the sudden movement and relocation
and changes in temperature and light.
Gentle music purls through the rooms as
I sing and talk and murmur to each one
as I remove dead leaves and gently
touch the soil in each pot
checking for moisture and extra 'residents'.
I light candles and distribute
ember-tipped sandwood incense
sticks throughout the house into
selected pots
I make dinner as plants and pups alike
hold their breath, vigilant, hopeful, relaxing
next each friend is carefully watered and welcomed
and we all begin to relax and rebond
as we learn to live together again
in this precious, peaceful home
Friday, September 14, 2018
Autumn skies
The days shorter
the nights longer
the relief of
less outside tasks
more inside book reading baking dog petting blankets
summer forest fires
smokily coloring the horizon, divine orange palettes
tracing the colors and patterns and emotions
etched on clouds and retinas
the past day gradually fades
darkness and silence enfolds
recharging
golden tiara of moon
over a darkening landscape
Posted for Poets United Midweek Motif: "Sunset"
Image credit: DV
Why
I hear the words under the words
why am I not coming down today?
I don't know how you think it's going to be
I kept hoping for passion and romance
real connection
real connection
that's not what happens
I'm tired of being disappointed
while you sit there, emotionless, waiting for
the evening to be over
to go to work the next morning early
while my feelings and hope bleed out
and you don't see or pretend not to
and they don't even scab over the next day
when finally
you're now ready for me to be there
I'm already done
and gone
mentally
Monday, September 10, 2018
No, no, no
I don't think I can do this
trusting is so impossible
simply don't have that skill any longer
after the surgical precision of the
most recent relationships in removing
that part, the chemo/radiation of abuse
narcissism, repeated dishonesties
alone-ness beckons again
the peace, the nonaccountability to anyone
the lack of need
or demand
to please or care for or even take into account
others
except self
and even that is a challenge
living with someone, despite
recent tenuous assertion,
is vomitous-sounding
the long-term thoughts of
being questioned about why I did or didn't
do 'this' makes me physically sick and paralyzed
I don't want to be a housewife,
a roommate
a daughter
a sister
a mother
a full-time lover
or even, most days,
a friend
gotten a lot of bruised buttocks
in that department in the last six years
too
introvert batteries need charged
before any decisions are made
Tuesday, September 4, 2018
Dumb ass #1
You can't imagine what you have done to offend me
why I stopped our contact abruptly
not even bothering to see that contacting me
after being blocked on social media
after I hung up on you when you called my work number
might NOT be desired
yet, you persisted and managed, through subterfuge, to call me at work.
Though I hung up after listening to your rationalizations for a few moments,
you just showed me again that you have no respect for
my boundaries
and
that you never did and that is so very clear to me now
after 37 years of acquaintance.
Why and what, you ask?
I'm tired of being treated I have no life apart from our very infrequent, superficial conversations
tired that you act like I am still a drunk 18 year old nymphomaniac
tired that you have made no attempt to get to know the 55 year old me
tired that you whine about your kids and your wife yet expect me
to respond to the questionable privilege of communication with you
under these ickiest of circumstances
Fuck off.
Okay?
Just fuck off.
I don't owe you any explanations. I don't owe you anything.
This writing piece is a placeholder in my life, to remind me that you are
still an asshole
just as much as you were in 1982, when my sister punched you out
and left you lying in the hallway outside our dorm room
because she was sick of you harassing and hurting me then.
Fuck off.
why I stopped our contact abruptly
not even bothering to see that contacting me
after being blocked on social media
after I hung up on you when you called my work number
might NOT be desired
yet, you persisted and managed, through subterfuge, to call me at work.
Though I hung up after listening to your rationalizations for a few moments,
you just showed me again that you have no respect for
my boundaries
and
that you never did and that is so very clear to me now
after 37 years of acquaintance.
Why and what, you ask?
I'm tired of being treated I have no life apart from our very infrequent, superficial conversations
tired that you act like I am still a drunk 18 year old nymphomaniac
tired that you have made no attempt to get to know the 55 year old me
tired that you whine about your kids and your wife yet expect me
to respond to the questionable privilege of communication with you
under these ickiest of circumstances
Fuck off.
Okay?
Just fuck off.
I don't owe you any explanations. I don't owe you anything.
This writing piece is a placeholder in my life, to remind me that you are
still an asshole
just as much as you were in 1982, when my sister punched you out
and left you lying in the hallway outside our dorm room
because she was sick of you harassing and hurting me then.
Fuck off.
Friday, August 31, 2018
Living in my body
Fearing the future
Rarely in the present
or in my body
my mind always off somewhere
disassociated
obsessively reliving trauma and crisis
role playing future drama and challenges
my poor body got left behind most of the time
becoming a dusty, broken down wreck
with poor care and minimal habitation
****
Amazed at each finger, how it curls and extends
the movement and sway of hips in snug-fitting jeans
aware of every inch of skin, every touch, every freckle
every change in temperature
sudden shocks of pain in long-abused feet
slow simmering arousal, lower abdomen pulsing with life
my life
the rotation of the wrist, a miracle of divine engineering
hair a super heroine cape around the head and shoulders
random bruising on arms and legs a study in memory and activity
***
The joy of being in the present moment actually
being present, mentally present and fully plugged in
inhabiting this incredibly tolerant machine of a body
it responds astonishingly well to good nourishment, exercise,
mental gymnastics, physical gymnastics (*wink*)
just plain every day use, being used, being inhabited
being loved
by me
and
with a higher power roommate in my head
these are some pretty cool digs to be living in
at long last
Thursday, August 30, 2018
Time after time, part two
The vultures are circling again
the last few days
the exes, that is
what is it with these men from my distant past contacting me,
hoping for a reboot?
I STILL haven't forgotten what fucktards y'all are and were
Perhaps things are different with each of you now
But on the strength of a few messages exchanged
I can tell that you all think I am still that naive young woman
who put up with your collective dysfunctional bullshit
who had no boundaries
who chose to date you for the amount of booze you drank
(usually, you were a choice because you drank more than me)
who thought that abuse and narcissistic personalities were 'normal'
(thanks, parental and grandparental units, for this)
Guess what?
I ain't dead and I ain't dumb
I am sober and recovering
I am no longer that young woman
I will no longer put up with your shit
I am using the block button liberally
Fuck off. LOL.
"Roar" by Katy Perry
"Time after time, part one"
Tuesday, May 22, 2018
Effervescent
It's is happening
what is happening
the mixed messages
are getting clearer
though it could just be
that hearing has improved
this this
is the reason hope springs eternal
because barely contained impatience and
a shut mouth
allow developments
to see where things go naturally
hardly dared to dream
the deeply contented morning of
the day after
carbonates the brain and body
with life
joy
it's alright
what is happening
the mixed messages
are getting clearer
though it could just be
that hearing has improved
this this
is the reason hope springs eternal
because barely contained impatience and
a shut mouth
allow developments
to see where things go naturally
hardly dared to dream
the deeply contented morning of
the day after
carbonates the brain and body
with life
joy
it's alright
Tuesday, May 8, 2018
Sanity
I've been called crazy
for not accepting the unacceptable
for being asked or forced to endure
situations that are harmful to me
for stating and holding to my boundaries
especially when those limits might have compelled
someone else to treat me me with respect and care
but I'm not
not
not crazy
and
grateful to know that now
NOW
I'm NOT
crazy
for not accepting the unacceptable
for being asked or forced to endure
situations that are harmful to me
for stating and holding to my boundaries
especially when those limits might have compelled
someone else to treat me me with respect and care
but I'm not
not
not crazy
and
grateful to know that now
NOW
I'm NOT
crazy
Friday, April 6, 2018
Familiarity
you talk to me
really talk to me
late at night
rambling, intimate conversations
not about the weather or sex or ego
where I don't have to keep the ball rolling
you ask lots of questions
thoughtful, curious, peeling the layers
like you really want to know the answers
sharing your own story, laughing, sweet
answering my own inquiries
no matter how weird or nosy
you certainly don't just have designs on my panties
music is a bond I haven't experienced
in thirty or more years
previously unknown songs weaving
their way into my hormones and subconsious
you are hopeful, painfully transparent
letting and encouraging me to be the same
really talk to me
late at night
rambling, intimate conversations
not about the weather or sex or ego
where I don't have to keep the ball rolling
you ask lots of questions
thoughtful, curious, peeling the layers
like you really want to know the answers
sharing your own story, laughing, sweet
answering my own inquiries
no matter how weird or nosy
you certainly don't just have designs on my panties
music is a bond I haven't experienced
in thirty or more years
previously unknown songs weaving
their way into my hormones and subconsious
you are hopeful, painfully transparent
letting and encouraging me to be the same
Tuesday, March 20, 2018
Thanks for making me a fighter
Image credit |
double-fisted celebration
high as a kite for days afterward
emotional regulation
I did it, I did it
dignity and silence
are the best tools ever
against 'tools'
friends reaffirmed
delightfully 'owning'
whatever I am a part of
protected by true love
strut, strut, strut
glowing in the dark
younger, sexier, happier than ever
crowning white hair a beacon
pretenders and faithful alike
happy birthday, hot fierce lady ME!
and I ain't gonna stop
Sunday, March 18, 2018
Upward spiral
Image credit |
The ups and downs
...but always up...
grieving and healing
new boundaries coming in
old ones banished or rehabbed
shopping browsing walking
coffee books music
memories and dreams
reexamined and reaffirmed
a day with old friends
full of laughter talk plans
smiles hugs joy
grateful
"How do you like me now?" by Toby Keith
Thursday, March 8, 2018
The difference
Her
Tension filled the car
like plastic-fire smoke
toxic, tough to breathe
instructions barked
her eyes narrowed
mouth dangerously tight
her focus inward
as I fearfully struggled to
manipulate the gas and clutch
in the right-magic combination
to not slam her head
through the windshield
failing, to the accompaniment
of more criticism, denigrating
demoralizing soundtrack of
my childhood
Him
Quiet, listening, thinking
watching me
me
carefully as I listened, equally attentive,
relaxed, quiet
to his gentle suggestions to attend
to the sound of the engine
my foot and hand, clunky-fisted,
eventually smoothly shifting
the gears on that long-ago white Fiesta
I got it, how the motor and the mechanics
worked together, when I could hear it
without fear, panic, anxiety...while also
learning diplomacy, tact, teaching skills
balance, love, understanding,
Inspired by "Drive (for Daddy Gene)" by Alan Jackson
Tension filled the car
like plastic-fire smoke
toxic, tough to breathe
instructions barked
her eyes narrowed
mouth dangerously tight
her focus inward
as I fearfully struggled to
manipulate the gas and clutch
in the right-magic combination
to not slam her head
through the windshield
failing, to the accompaniment
of more criticism, denigrating
demoralizing soundtrack of
my childhood
Him
Quiet, listening, thinking
watching me
me
carefully as I listened, equally attentive,
relaxed, quiet
to his gentle suggestions to attend
to the sound of the engine
my foot and hand, clunky-fisted,
eventually smoothly shifting
the gears on that long-ago white Fiesta
I got it, how the motor and the mechanics
worked together, when I could hear it
without fear, panic, anxiety...while also
learning diplomacy, tact, teaching skills
balance, love, understanding,
Inspired by "Drive (for Daddy Gene)" by Alan Jackson
Tuesday, March 6, 2018
Thoughts during meetings
Listening to 'the perpetual quest'
read at an AA meeting today
I suddenly understood why
I thought/hoped fourteen years ago
read at an AA meeting today
I suddenly understood why
I thought/hoped fourteen years ago
that I would be tossed out of this group
if I refused to profess
that I was an alcoholic...
if I refused to profess
that I was an alcoholic...
At my first meetings in 1988
in a different town, I was
there at the request of a friend
newly in recovery herself
even then, I refused to identify as
an alcoholic or having
there at the request of a friend
newly in recovery herself
even then, I refused to identify as
an alcoholic or having
even a remote desire
to quit drinking
and
those long-ago recovering peeps
wanted to me to leave the meeting
to quit drinking
and
those long-ago recovering peeps
wanted to me to leave the meeting
because of my obdurate defiance
and then
a furious argument ensued
about my presence
the upshot of which was
I got to stay for a few meetings
and then
a furious argument ensued
about my presence
the upshot of which was
I got to stay for a few meetings
...then, I didn't know that
that really wasn't how 'it' worked...
Then, I was indignant
how dare they boot me out
even though I didn't want to be there?
even though I didn't want to be there?
...though I never went back
until fifteen years later
when I was diligently trying to
get kicked out of Cody Group AA
and
they declined to accommodate me
Thank God
things that make me go 'hmmm'
and
make me grateful that I am now
teachable
Friday, March 2, 2018
Namaste
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To those who came
or
were a part of my life
before now
the friends
the lovers
the husbands
the family members
the oh-so-brief acquaintances
the deceased
the isolated
the abandoned
the hurting
the transient
the misunderstood
the mentally ill
the addicted
I release you
each of you
from
whatever might have been
could have been
or was
between us
respectfully and sincerely
I bow to you
each of you
hands over my heart
I greet you
I acknowledge you
I bid you farewell
I wish you well
each of you
always
Monday, February 26, 2018
Moving on
A dream last night
about the chaos
of splitting up
so much drama
tears, rage, filth, fear
something lost
an innocence, a trust
in the form of a child
something gained
compassion
new understanding
release and relief
the letting go...
curiously ambivalent
but relieved?
who knew that
though it was sad
it is good
about the chaos
of splitting up
so much drama
tears, rage, filth, fear
something lost
an innocence, a trust
in the form of a child
something gained
compassion
new understanding
release and relief
the letting go...
curiously ambivalent
but relieved?
who knew that
though it was sad
it is good
Saturday, January 20, 2018
"But you live here...why?"
A question
asked in a vision
by 'god' to a character
in a tv show, which entity
was intensely curious
why
the visionary
was emotionally
paused
in a moment of terrible loss
in the past
a pause for thought
if/when one is stuck in the past
in the pain
in the mistake or the lie
in someone else's opinion or perception
one does basically indeed 'live' there
and doesn't even know it
and can never move on
because one doesn't even know
one is living there
these are the moments to
examine, make peace with,
release
and move on
to live in the present
not the past
asked in a vision
by 'god' to a character
in a tv show, which entity
was intensely curious
why
the visionary
was emotionally
paused
in a moment of terrible loss
in the past
a pause for thought
if/when one is stuck in the past
in the pain
in the mistake or the lie
in someone else's opinion or perception
one does basically indeed 'live' there
and doesn't even know it
and can never move on
because one doesn't even know
one is living there
these are the moments to
examine, make peace with,
release
and move on
to live in the present
not the past
Sunday, January 14, 2018
As earth is my witness
Buddhist sayings and teachings
so basic and so sensible
soothing and teaching
remembering the private beliefs
the innocent enlightenment of
childhood, so un-Christian yet
making so much sense to my
young mind
especially that of
reincarnation
those thoughts and perceptions
were repressed in the interest of
survival and 'fitting in'
but today, these return to me
I am ready and I am free
to explore and to be
who I am meant
so basic and so sensible
soothing and teaching
remembering the private beliefs
the innocent enlightenment of
childhood, so un-Christian yet
making so much sense to my
young mind
especially that of
reincarnation
those thoughts and perceptions
were repressed in the interest of
survival and 'fitting in'
but today, these return to me
I am ready and I am free
to explore and to be
who I am meant
Genuine...lies
Indubitable
bona fide
honest
actual
verifiable
considered
empathetic
factual
considerable
genuine
really?
hahahahahaha....
bona fide
honest
actual
verifiable
considered
empathetic
factual
considerable
genuine
really?
hahahahahaha....
Saturday, January 13, 2018
Bombast and bullshit
A gillie-wet-foot blunderbuss
of the abydocomist typeendlessly gnashgabbing
Member of the cult of non-virility
bedswerving bespawler
boblyning bobolyne
bedswerving bespawler
boblyning bobolyne
cumbergrounding dalcop
dew-beater klazomaniac
gobermunching fopdoodle
fustylugian FUSTILARIAN
dew-beater klazomaniac
gobermunching fopdoodle
fustylugian FUSTILARIAN
loiter-sack lubberwort
quisby raggabadash
rakefire saddle-goose
skelpie-limmer snoutband
tallow-catch wandought
all hat and no cattle
gentleman of four outs
rumbumptuous gollumpus
shabbaroon wrinkler
skamelar mandrake mymmerkin
mumblecrust, drate-poke clack-box?
Friday, January 12, 2018
Joy and laughter
I've said it before
and I'll say it again
but the freedom from bullshit
is intoxicating
Everything, I mean everything,
is like a spring day as
snow melts and the crocuses
poke their purple, gold, and white noses
out of the ground, seeking the sun
hope unfurling with their green foliage
the barely damp ground nourishing and uplifting
...you know the feeling of that spring day?
when the frozen cold hell of winter is finally broken
and light becomes more than dark?
so much joy in my head
now that the dark clouds are gone
the oppressive presences blown away
by the winds of divorce and
spiritual housecleaning
the world has a new and sparkling sheen
adoring and loving the vitality
rising in me and
the people I choose
more than I ever have
I can trust again
I can love again
I can dream again
I laugh and laugh
glad the tears are gone
the sadness lifted
every day I am high on me
blissed out on my recovery and
my single status
I need nothing and no one else
ready for the next adventure
which just happens to be...every day of my life
"Call it what you want" by Taylor Swift
and I'll say it again
but the freedom from bullshit
is intoxicating
Everything, I mean everything,
is like a spring day as
snow melts and the crocuses
poke their purple, gold, and white noses
out of the ground, seeking the sun
hope unfurling with their green foliage
the barely damp ground nourishing and uplifting
...you know the feeling of that spring day?
when the frozen cold hell of winter is finally broken
and light becomes more than dark?
so much joy in my head
now that the dark clouds are gone
the oppressive presences blown away
by the winds of divorce and
spiritual housecleaning
the world has a new and sparkling sheen
adoring and loving the vitality
rising in me and
the people I choose
more than I ever have
I can trust again
I can love again
I can dream again
I laugh and laugh
glad the tears are gone
the sadness lifted
every day I am high on me
blissed out on my recovery and
my single status
I need nothing and no one else
ready for the next adventure
which just happens to be...every day of my life
"Call it what you want" by Taylor Swift
Thursday, January 11, 2018
Did we fail her? No.
She's gone
saw her obituary today
from several weeks ago
remembering her sparkling eyes
delighted face
when we did her 5th step together
excited for the beginning of
her new life
but then
after treatment
half measures began
to her detriment
though we knew those half measures
would avail her nothing
still
we reached out, called, texted
encouraged
she walked away
she couldn't do recovery
so
she is gone
but
we
stayed
sober
saw her obituary today
from several weeks ago
remembering her sparkling eyes
delighted face
when we did her 5th step together
excited for the beginning of
her new life
but then
after treatment
half measures began
to her detriment
though we knew those half measures
would avail her nothing
still
we reached out, called, texted
encouraged
she walked away
she couldn't do recovery
so
she is gone
but
we
stayed
sober
Dancing in the pool
Walking
floating
musing
light touches and thoughts
pirouettes
singly and together
quiet, light conversation that
quickly becomes intense,
deep, meaningful,
semi-opaque
like
the water beneath us
gliding within
your arms
warm, sulfurish water curling
around our shoulders
swirling, twirling, talking
gazing into your eyes
sure
"I Hope You Dance" by Lee Ann Womack
floating
musing
light touches and thoughts
pirouettes
singly and together
quiet, light conversation that
quickly becomes intense,
deep, meaningful,
semi-opaque
like
the water beneath us
gliding within
your arms
warm, sulfurish water curling
around our shoulders
swirling, twirling, talking
gazing into your eyes
sure
"I Hope You Dance" by Lee Ann Womack
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